Time to be H O T
(Honest Open Transparent)
I’m gonna be honest with y’all. I really really really dislike cold weather. It sucks to put on multiple layers of clothing just to keep from dying. And it seems like no matter how much you layer up with, you can still feel the sting. My body literally hurts when I’m cold.
I love me some hot weather though!!! Because I can control my body temperature by how much water I drink.
But, if I was to really opened up with y’all…I dislike cold people.
I’m taking the ones who have a heart so cold that when you are around them, you feel distant & alone. These people are uncaring, unempathetic & detached from everything they do.
I’ve experienced people like this on many occasions & 99% of the time, I’ve felt their sting.
Why?
Because I value their thoughts.
Let that sink in for a minute. I value the thoughts & opinion of those who harm me more so that those who love me!!!
Ya, I do.
Let me be transparent for a minute & tell you who these people are with a cold heart, who speak ill of me…
M E
Yep Yep. When I get down & dirty to really think about it. I am my own worst enemy. My thoughts about me come from all the people in my life that I believed had the best interest for me, but in reality, they didn't. They constantly brought me down & I believed them.
So, moving forward what have I started doing? Not listening to me. Not going off how I feel. But trusting in the One who truly knows me (Jesus) & listening to the one who loves me (my bride).
It’s not easy re-wire-ing your mind, especially after living one way for decades. And many days you can feel the civil war going on inside of you. But once the good thoughts about you start winning some battles.....hold on tight, you will be a force to reckoned with.